0I thought I understood the difference between had better and better in the following context, but it seems like I'm still as lost as before.02br 02br 00Someone told me you last saw my missing daughter. You [had] better tell me where she is before things get ugly.02br 02br 00What's the difference between with and without 'had'?02br 02br 00Thanks!0-
0What about this context:02br 02br 00You['d] better go now. He'll be waiting for you.02br 02br 00I'd like to know when you use one and not the other. Or do you always use the version with 'had' in formal writing?0-
0Use 01i00you had better02i00 in formal writing -- in the rare cases it might occur in formal writing.02br 00Use 01i00you'd better02i00 in ordinary conversation with anybody.02br 00Use 01i00you better02i00 (or 01i00you'd better02i00) in very casual conversation with someone you kn
0 i never really understanding why there's the "HAD" in giving advices, in my head it sounds like something from the PAST (Have->Had) but apparently, it is used in giving advices, which refers more to the future. i guess that's one of those things you say "It's always been like that" , so i just use it and be comfortable with it ...no questions asked. 0-
1i00You had better02i00 means 01i00you will have to.02i00 I hope this enables you to see the difference between01i00 better 02i00and 01i00had better.02i0-
0Hi Yoong Liat, with all due respect, the native speakers don't seem to recognize any difference between them. Or maybe they are not telling me the subtle difference 05000 For the record, my interpretation is the same as yours.010id1
0Hi New2grammar02br 02br 00In informal speech, AmE and SME (Singapore/Malaysian English) speakers sometimes say 01i00You better do something02i00 instead of the strictly correct 01i00You had better do something.02i0-