What do "they" refer to in your question? I assume you are referring to your son and your daughter in law, in that case the fact that they are having a child is irrelevant to your question. Anyhow, if you are talking about your grandchild and your husband's brother's son, they would be cousin, or second cousin to be more exact.
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