Your Responsibility Now or The School Later? Sex education is a process that begins at birth and continues until the day you die. It is a process of building a strong foundation for sexual health. There are many misunderstandings and non-factual opinions that go along with this topic even though it is constantly discussed. Most parents would rather the school system to teach their child sex education. While others prefer their child to learn most of their information through them. A vital part of an adolescents education is when parents communicate with their children. It is important for schools to teach sex education, however it is the parent's responsibility to be the main source of this information. Sex education in school provides the basic and scientific approach of sex and the human body. Sex education is introduced to children in school between 5th and 6th grade. Parents believe the topic is less touchy when it is up to the school. Your probably wondering, so when should I actually have the talk with my child? Sex education should start before the school starts to offer it. Talking to your child about sex at an early age and at home helps them gain the correct information that they need. According to kidshealth.org, 77% of children tend to discuss sex at school, even as early as first grade. beginning at 2 or 3 years of age, you should introduce private parts, without giving nick names because it makes later conversations more comfortable and direst without embarrassment. At 4 or 5, you should teach them not to allow others to touch them in inappropriate ways. This information helps them become aware of sexual harassment and predators. According to parenting.com when the child reaches 12 and over avoid over killing the topic or your kids will start to tune you out. Make the discussion every 6 months. It is very important that the talk is done in a timely manner. The primary goal of sex education in the schools is to help young people to build a foundation as they mature into sexually adults. It is your job that your child is prepared and ready. Talking to your child late about sex causes them to ask their peers. Asking their peers can cause them to get the wrong information. I work at a Prince George's County Elementary School, where children do not shy away from the subject. Also, believe it or not they are having sex as early as 4th grade. To late doesn't always have to mean they already received the information. It can mean that your child is having sex already. When I was in the 6th grade my parents left it up to the school system to explain sex to me. After that interesting sex education class, I was terrified. The information I received from class was that it must hurt really bad. Also, if you have sex two things will happen; you will get a sexually transmitted disease or you will get pregnant. My parents should have talked to me before I went to the scared straight class. I would have known about sex: the good, bad, and the values of it. The class would have been learning from a different aspect. With the new outbreak of sexually transmitted diseases and the fact that sexually active persons are becoming younger; we need to make sure as parents to help out kids know the important information and make smart decisions. When you are scared and the topic is kept as an mystery, they may not feel comfortable to talk to you on the topic. You may be uncomfortable, but you are helping your children set values and allows them to become more open with you. According to the magazine Wise Geek, talking to your kids can be uncomfortable and challenging for you to discuss. If so speak to a pediatrician or church group for helpful recommendations. Continuing to encourage questions will help guide your children. Express to your child that home is the best place to ask questions and receive information. Their friends do not know all the information they need. Sexual education should begin at home. Parents and Guardians out to be the primary instructors of sex education for their children. Daily, parents should take advantage of every opportunity to teach this subject to their children. Think about yourself trying to have the sex talk with your kids ad they express to you that they are already having sex. Think about yourself trying to have the sex talk with your child and they tell you their friends already helped them understand it, but it was information you don't approve of. Think about your child being pregnant and you didn't know they were having sex. Think about your child's teacher teaching him/her about sex and your don't agree with her teaching method on the subject.
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