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Question: what are the characteristics of a good parent?

The characteristics of parents will impact the mature process of a child. The characteristics of good parents such as understanding, being strict, being respectful.

Firstly, understanding is important to parents can observe the behavior of children. For example parents should know hobbies and hold clear the characteristics of children.

Secondly, being strict is necessary for teaching children. For example, parents should adjust the action of children as soon as possible. Moreover, parents can use a light penalty such as stay alone and think behavior they did.

Lastly, parents should respect the choice of children. Being respectful will help children have potential independence. For instance, children choose a favorite university after they completed a high-school graduate have a suitable decision. Besides, parents should not force children t learn things they do not.

In short, the characteristics of parents affects the behavior of children, so parents should can when teaching children.

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