Hi Sue, Yes, of course-- if both were said, then ' and ' is the conjunction to use. In fact with 'or', it appears that the writer did not hear what was said at all, but is just guessing! Unfortunately, some non-native speakers have learnt something (sometimes inaccurately), and will indeed not budge.
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