Force hand of fate destiny

Yes, it's natural.

I can't seem to find the idiom. Could you tell me if it is anywhere in the dictionary or elsewhere?

Is it correct to say
I can't find it anywhere
change destiny
change fate
change the course of fate
change the course of destiny

thank you

It's not that you're missing an idiom. All of your versions are proper English. It's just that in the Western tradition, fate or destiny is immutable. In Greek mythology, the Moirai ("Fates" in English) were three goddesses, sisters who determined the destinies of humans. One sister spun the thread of a life, the second measured it, and the third cut it. Their decisions could not be changed