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Sun 94 Posted 15 years ago
Vocabulary

Flattering vs obsequious

These two words -flattering and obsequious - seem to have the very similar meaning. My questions is if obsequious is a common word in spoken and written English and if the following sentence is correct.

I don't like him because he is too flattering or obsequious to any people that he thinks is useful.
  

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Greetings, they are similar, indeed, but describe somewhat different actions from somewhat different angles. One who is flattering (we may call him a flatterer) flatters by words ; being obsequious (=displaying obsequiousness) is never good; it is an excessive concern about the will of another which has always interest for its end . I would say that using flattery is only one way of being obsequious.

  • Greetings, they are similar, indeed, but describe somewhat different actions from somewhat different angles.
  • One who is flattering (we may call him a flatterer) flatters by words ; being obsequious (=displaying obsequiousness) is never good; it is an excessive concern about the will of another which has always interest for its end .
  • I would say that using flattery is only one way of being obsequious.
  • Neither of them are decidedly literal or elevated, both are current in spoken and written language.
  • Pay attention to your sentence, though sun 94 I don't like him because he is obsequious to any people that he thinks are useful.
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Greetings,

they are similar, indeed, but describe somewhat different actions from somewhat different angles. One who is flattering (we may call him a flatterer) flatters by words; being obsequious (=displaying obsequiousness) is never good; it is an excessive concern about the will of another which has always interest for its end. I would say that using flattery is only one

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