Hello, teachers!
Please help me with these!
1. It was a real revelation to/for me when/that Jane visited

to/in The Hague.
Q1. Can we use either "to" or "for"?
Q2. Can we use either "when" or "that"?
Q3. Can we omit "me" here?
Q4. Which is correct, "to" or "in"?
2. It was a real revelation for Americans when President Bush visited (to/in) Iraq.
Q5. Can we use or omit "to/in" here?
Thank you very much.
Peace!