"ever" and "even" both (separately) add emphasis. "ever" emphasises the infrequency, and "even" emphasises that a greeting is not much to ask, or is the minimum level of notice that would be expected.
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I don't know the role of 'ask'; did you mean the following by the above sentence?
"even" emphasises that a greeting is not much to ask