A buffer is a place in computer memory, which serves as temporary storage for content of any kind (but it's usually filled with content from either files or streams). "buffering" refers to the process of filling a buffer (with some kind of data). "buffer" and "load" are synonymous in some contexts (as you have correctly guessed), but they are usually not interchangeable.
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