It's "directed to". I have never heard of "directed at" in the context which you provide. It doesn't sound right to me.
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saveopheliaThank you! But it's okay in the following context, right?"His anger was directed at me."Yes, it is. But then the context is different here.
saveopheliaAgain, thank you for your expertise!It's not exactly "expertise", but you're welcome!