I am not sure your meaning. I am guessing a) you weren't told and b) Sarah was told but you did not like it? I would rewrite your sentences to the following: Why didn't you tell me this but instead told Sarah?
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2-What if we are talking about two acts, but one was not carried out instead of the other.