Hello If you wish to ask about something that happened in the past ("got to know"), the right choice is #1. You could use #2 if, for example, you were asking for advice; if you wanted to know what you'd have to do in order to get to know that person yourself: "He seems to be a very private man. " There may be other possibilities, but I'm soooooooo late for work now!
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