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Pthbear67 Posted 16 years ago
Grammar

Did I miss the boat somewhere?

recenctly I heard on the radio:

"...join me and my wife on a cruise to..."

my immediate reaction was: " what??...me and what's her name..."

when I learned english, the fine british way would phrase that: " ... join my wife and me... "

now I know the language changes, but did I miss something on the way ???
  

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Welcome to the Forums, bear! Both sound ok to me. I'm sure that any preference for one or the other will be more 'convention' than 'rule'.

  • Welcome to the Forums, bear!
  • Both sound ok to me.
  • I'm sure that any preference for one or the other will be more 'convention' than 'rule'.
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Welcome to the Forums, bear!

Both sound ok to me. I'm sure that any preference for one or the other will be more 'convention' than 'rule'.
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It's more usual to put yourself last in a list of people that includes you.

Nevertheless, as far as I know, there is nothing grammatically incorrect if you wish to push your way to the front of the line and place yourself first!

CJ
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Please don't double post. I am deleting your earlier, anonymous other post with this same question, since I think it has been answered here. However, I don't understand what you mean by changing "my wife" to "what's her name." Could you explain your meaning?
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I answered the other post, also calling attention to the duplicate nature of the post.

When I began my answer, the post was available in this grammar section.
When I finished, I had just responded to a deleted post.

Strange how that can happen.

CJ
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Sorry, CJ! Theere were no replies to the other one when I hit "delete"!

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