" . . .kept me in the dark" is the exact phrasing of the idiom for withholding information. Although kidnappers could be considered an early cue, I for one respond to the idiom, and only after a split-second of reflection do I feel sure of the meaning. My reaction is, "I've got to suspend judgement until I finish the sentence." (Definitely not a speed reader.) Granted, the potential for
"In darkness" is also possible--literally in darkness without any light provided. So: either expression could be used, but if my meaning is the actual situation, "in darkness" is the only one that would be correct. The idiom "in the dark" would definitely make me think only of the withholding of information. Phew!
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It's a somewhat idiomatic and amusing expression used when someone has a difficulty to overcome. By facing frustrations and challenges and overcoming them, we become better able to face similar difficulties in the future. This strengthening of our ability to face these situations is called "building character".
So when one of your friends is complaining about an unpleasant task h