To "get my way" means that the result that I want happens when I want one result but somebody else wants a different result. In the song he talks about a disagreement with his mother -- so he and his mother each want something different. He would run to his father in hopes that his father would allow the outcome that he (Luther) wanted but that his mother did not want -- if his father allowed that, the father allowing it would be Luther getting his way.
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