Could you please help me make my essay properly?

I am not very familiar with this topic, but my first thought on this topic is

To blame only myself In all my failures it is wrong because I may get a guilt complex. how would you say it more natural correctly
if we only blame ourself in all our failures it will be wrong because we may get a guilt complex.
I don’t know this is strong people or not who blame only themselves . It seems to me just the faint person always blame themselves. They always complains: - " I'm blame for everything, I'm a loser."
For instance my friend was fired from his job, I ask him: - "Well, how are you?" And he said: - "I'm OK, let they will seek such a good worker like me, and I'm so in great demand I will find a new job quickly."
Here's how should one look at the situation )) and the other fell into a anabiosis, and blamed himself for not working so well.
Life is one, and during this period we should enjoy our life and achieve our goals and we shouldn’t complain and blame ourselves.
In all of our failures to blame others, it is also wrong. So many people have a habit of blaming their problems and problems of your company to others.
One should have a middle ground. You should approach the situation adequately, without extremes. First you have to determine the responsibility where is your and where is someone else - and then the blame should be assessed.
In some situations we should considered a failure as a sign that we should go further but rethinking and changing the strategy to achieve the goal.
In order to become champion sportsman many practicing going through injuries and losses.
The man who only blames others, this person is not ready to change himself or change something in his life. He will always accuse that someone is guilty.
He can not change either himself or others in this life. He can not change anything in this life and he just goes with the flow. The person who accuses himself, he sees his mistake and he finds the strength to change himself and change others. He is able to go against the flow.
I don't get it, why do we always want to blame someone or look for the guilty person
If there is a problem it must be determined we should seek a way out of it, but we don't blame ourself or anyone else. I think the searching for the guilty person - is a dead end.
Step is to engage in concrete! A strong man doesn’t blame anyone he solve the problems he doesn’t complain whether he is guilty, or someone else.
If something goes wrong, it is futile to look for who is right or wrong ... We should to find the cause, which led to undesirable consequences, and to direct all forces in its elimination.
A statement that we should blame ourselves and not others - it is about what we should take responsibility for our lives. Do not complain, but to act in the best of our ability to benefit ourself, do not wait till our fellow men become wiser, and the situation will change itself.?

Thank you for advance.