We promised that this would not get us down: This means that there was an agreement that we would conquer the situation, resolve it, or survive. This: Whoever is being addressed in the poem will understand that "this" represents the whole situation. Any of it: Again, the 'it' refers to the entire situation, which isn't clearly identified within the poem; however, I suspect that it might be the death of a loved one.
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