Conflicts between you and your parents

Generation gap causes conflicts between adults and teenagers. For this reason, I also often get into conflicts with my parents in way of thinking. The most problem is my parents are always comparing me to other girls or boys. They often say she could do this, she could so that and why I couldn't be like them. They think it is good for me but I feel sad and bored because they don't see my good points. This problem is also popular in many families, I know they want to motivate their children. But I think it's ineffective. So I hope they will be more psychological.