Who refers to the waiter that was hurrying by in both sentences. The first sentence may suggest that there was only one waiter in the restaurant or it could mean that even though there were many waiters, the one who had served you was hurrying by. The second sentence is possible if there were many waiters in the restaurant and one of them happened to walk by.
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