Can you please help with the grammar?

Could you please help me correctly write this?

I understand why you'd be mad right now. I did that.
I'd understand if you were mad right now. I'm sorry I did that.
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He allowed us to stay through to 10 pm.
He allowed us to stayed 9 am through to 10 pm.
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What is worse losing this or that
Is it worse to lose this or that?
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The older she gets the more she resembles her mom both mentally and physically.
As she gets older she resembles her mom more and more both mentally and physically.
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Does this make sense?
Did you think she was a strong lady in life mentally, her getting sick aside. That's just life bringing its wrath down on her.
Did you think she was a strong lady in life mentally, besides her getting sick. That's just life bringing its wrath down on her.

Thanks a lot