CAN SOMEBODY EDIT MY WORK PLEASE?

CAN SOMEBODY EDIT MY WORK PLEASE?

What Do I Worry About?

Worrying is an all too common activity in which we humans take part and it is a sign of being lack of confidence with self. We worry when we are not sure of what our future will bring us. Some people learned this full of tension activity is less than worth their time while others let worrying overpower and consume them.
Worries are basically fears. I get scared of things that might happen. Is it helpful? Or it is just a factor that leads us in for being a failure or a successful one? These are just common questions that run in my mind when I heard that five letter word. Although it’s hard to admit, it’s easier for me to worry about something than do about it.
Different writer’s said that:
“Worrying may help every individual to avoid unpleasant emotions it May also healthy response to our life, it prevent us from being reckless, or stimulates us to do our best and take control of a situation.”
(Edward M. Hallowell)
“Worry is a complete inefficient revolving about a pivot of chair"
(Unknown author)
“Worrying can be helpful when it spurs you to take action and solve a problem. But if you’re preoccupied with “what ifs” and worst-case scenarios, worry becomes a problem of its own”.
(HELPGUIDE.org)
“Worrying is feeling uneasy or being overly concerned about a situation or problem”
(WebMD)
“Worry a little bit every day and in a lifetime you will lose a couple of years. If something is wrong, fix it if you can. But train yourself not to worry. Worry never fixes anything”.
(Mary Hemingway)
When I am worried I always feel that my feelings and emotions are stop or suppressed but as soon I stop worrying all the tension and anxiety are bounces back or lost. Worry may cause negative and positive feedback with every individual. The positive effect of being worried is it helps every individual to think about the future, they can make a plan, think a solution even the problem is not yet concrete, and help everyone to be responsible enough with their self.
The negative effect of being worried constant is harmful, worrying is a destructive to us in many ways. It becomes a mental burden that can even cause us to grow physically sick because it may lead or drive to every individual to have a mental problem and may affect also our physical health like headaches and muscle tension that I always experienced every time I worry.
Bible and writers ideas about negative effect of worries:
“Worry weighs a person down; an encouraging person up”
(Proverbs 12:25)
“Constant worrying takes a heavy toll. It keeps you up at night and makes you tense and end edgy during the day”
(Robert l. Leahy, Ph.D.)

“Worrying affects your daily life so much that it interferes with your appetite, lifestyle habits, relationships, sleep, and job performance. Many people who worry excessively are so anxiety-ridden that they seek relief in harmful lifestyle habits such as overeating, cigarette smoking, or using alcohol and drugs”.
(WebMD.com)
Everyone has its anxiety may be some of them are just the same but still it is a worry.
“I've spent an awful lot of time in my life worrying. I've worried about grades in school, job interviews, approaching deadlines and shrinking budgets. I've worried about bills and expenses, rising gas prices, insurance costs and endless taxes. I've even worried about having my home”
(Mary Fairchild, About.com Guide)
The people you love means a lot to you, specially your family that always there to support you. I remember when I was young I’m always worried about my parents. I’m worried with their health; a lot of questions come into my mind like what if they are sick? Who will took good care of them? Who will be there for me to guide me and give me advices when I have a problem? Who will be there to help me, are my siblings and relatives still there for me to help me and guide me? Or I will be just alone in my remaining life? These are just my worries when I am at School age. I know it is just a non sense question but when I’m thinking of it I can’t control the tears that come from my eyes to fall. Mama and Papa are not getting any younger and I want them to enjoy and relax everyday yet it’s now slight impossible because they’re making money for my education and I can see their hard work just to send me to school.
My sister is struggling to find a better job that’s why I’m pretty concern for her but I know and they all know that my sister was the best nurse ever. My brother has good health, stable job plus nice salary, and I think he’s happy there’s just one thing I feel bother for him and that’s his love life. I’m not sure if he have girlfriend now but I’m wishing that he find and choose the right one for him.
Since I was a little, Digimon was my best friend .He’s turning 13 years old these August and I’m so glad that he’s still with me. He came to our life when AFP went to our Barangay, I can’t exactly remember what the reason behind of it but what I recall is that AFP and NPA have encountered near on our place. Because of what happen AFP decided stay on our Barangay for almost one year for the protection of civilians. One of the head of soldiers who always buy on our Sari-Sari Store gave me a female dog to show appreciation maybe because he always sees me give foods to their dogs. And I named her Armida. She was my very first pet that I take care; she can do some tricks like rolling, sitting, and shake hands perhaps because she’s from high class of dogs. How did it come up to Digimon? One of the offspring of Armida was him. Yes, I worry to him just the way I feel to my parents, my brother and sister because he’s already a part of our family. I’m aware that those thirteen years for a dog is already a blessing but I can’t imagine if he’s no longer here with us. There are countless memories that made us laugh and happy because of him. Sometimes he sneeze or cough when everybody is so quiet or serious, he also make some funny tricks or actions like unusual rolling and playing basketball in the air that will really catch your attention. I don’t know if Digimon is doing it on purpose or he just really like that, but still I want to thank him so much because he creates glee within our family.
I also remember when I am graduating at High School my mind was pre occupied by worries. I am worried about the coming College enrolment I’m so worried with everything, how I’m going to enrol, where school should I choose or go and what I will do? Who are the people I’m going with? Can I give them my trust or not? These questions run to my mind during and after my graduation.
Family is one of the biggest worry that been said in research, it shows there that Family sometimes cause heavy pressure in every children like sending in schools forcedly, forcing them to like what parents want to them and mostly being too much protected with their children. Also research shows that most of the children are worried because what if they lost their family what they will do? Same with them, I’m worried in terms of family. I’m worried about their future when they get old, their expectations with me regarding with my school performance and if I’m going to be like my two siblings who already graduated with a Bachelor Degrees or I will be just the same with other teenager who did not finish their study because they suffer early pregnancy, about their feelings and emotions that they could feel to me when I did something wrong, will they forgive me or not? Even they’re not pushing or forcing me in my academic subjects or to be on top student in school or what, still it pressures me a lot because just like what I said earlier my brother and sister have already finished their courses and I’m only the one remaining that still studying that’s the reason why that opens the another reason to causes me to worry.
Will I pass my course? To be honest I don’t know why I’m in here and now even I’m just starting actually not because we’re near to finish the first year of our course (if I pass), back on what I’m saying, I really don’t know why I went in this track and now here I am worrying for my future. I heard to somebody that it is a catastrophic mistake if you took Bachelor of Science in Information Technology, maybe he is right it’s feels like torturing yourself, I’m not exaggerating because that’s how I feel at this time. Sometimes my sleep only is just five hours I’m pretty lucky if I got six.
Bachelor of Science in Information Technology
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopaedia
A Bachelor of Science in Information Technology, (abbreviated BScIT or B.Sc IT), is a bachelor's degree awarded for the completion of an undergraduate course or program in information technology.
A Bachelor of Science in Information Technology degree program typically lasts three to four years. This degree is primarily focused on subjects such as software, databases, and networking. In general computer science degrees tend to focus on the mathematical and theoretical foundations of computing rather than emphasizing specific technologies. The degree is a Bachelor of Science degree with institutions conferring degrees in the fields of information technology and related fields. This degree is awarded for completing a program of study in the field of software development, software testing, software engineering, computer networking, web design, databases, and programming.
Many employers require software developers or programmers to have a Bachelor of Science in Computer Science degree, however those seeking to hire for positions such as network administrators or database managers would require a Bachelors of Science in Information Technology or an equivalent degree. Graduates with an information technology background are able to perform technology tasks relating to the processing, storing, and communication of information between computers, mobile phones, and other electronic devices. Information technology as field emphasizes the secure management of large amounts of variable information and its accessibility via a wide variety of systems both local and world-wide.
The phrase "able to perform technology tasks relating to the processing, storing, and communication of information between computers, mobile phones, and other electronic devices" really errks me. It makes me wonder "If someday I luckily pass this course and I'm not developing something, or managing over it, what else do I do or should I do?"
Our instructor gave us our project and that’s the File System, thanks to God because I’m not struggling on it and I’m confident that I can finish it. What I’m worried about is that when I submit it because our instructor is going to check it (of course) and we’re going to debug it in front of her, she will test us if we can fix our program when she change or remove the other codes to prove that it is really our work.
I’m afraid to get a very low grades that been hated by every individual the failed grades. I’m so worried of my grades because it is one of the bases if I will be successful in my field, if I can go up into the stage wearing a Toga and be accompanied by my parents or it will be just a dream. It cause me worries because I know if I will failed, my parents will be sad and I hate seeing my parents seeing unhappy with me I want them to be always happy and free from any worries and problem because of me.
The people who around me also cause me to worried because I’m so anxious or worried about their impression on me of what they are saying to me. Worried if what they will going to say to me when I turn back, I’m worried with their expectations and opinions. Sometimes, I’m thinking that they are laughing on me and saying bad words against to me that could hurt my family. I know it is just an idea but is annoying in my mind; I really don’t want to be criticized by other people because they don’t know me.
The current events in our country and all over the world really cause me to worry. The different news in the TV, Radios and newspapers that I can read and hear are very irritating. Like the news about our government, global socio economic status, nature issues like what happened in some parts of our country the earthquakes, floods and storms, the war in different countries, job opportunities and most of all the news about the end of the world issue. Worries of fear; fear that can’t explain why, but for me it is a fear of death. End of the World now becomes a big issue in the whole world and it burden me because even it was just a fact and no legal basis still it sends to every individual a worries. I’m so curious about this matter, how did they say that it will happen this year and it will be on December 21, 2012?
Here’s the article that I read:
2012 Predictions - A list of predictions including Mayan Calendar 2012
1. There are 2012 predictions about ALIENS FROM OUTER SPACE - but is this December 21 2012 end of the world idea a result of too much time sitting in front of the box and not enough actual facts? And how did they come up with this end of the world 2012 doomsday prediction about an alien invasion? That said, stories of abductions and sightings come from all kinds of people it's hard to believe they are making it up. If real, are these aliens’ extraterrestrial beings from another planet or are these aliens from another dimension? And if aliens are coming in December 2012, what are their intentions?
2. What about the biblical PROPHECIES OF ARMAGEDDON - we have already had two world wars, will the world end with the ultimate war between good and evil in the year 2012? This idea is different to other end of the world 2012 predictions as it involves biblical prophecies. Biblical prophecies have been right before. One example is the birth of Christ which fulfilled about 300 prophecies. Before Armageddon comes however (and December 21 2012 is not predicted in the Bible as "Armageddon Day"), biblical prophecies speak of a great time of GREAT TRIBULATION on the earth. Having said that, the Bible not only prophecies about a battle of future Armageddon on earth but also earthquakes, floods, famine, disease, wars and rumours of wars which we are getting now!
There will be things happening in the heavens far beyond our control. These are not end of the world 2012 predictions. But the Bible does say God will use cosmic events as means of his judgement on earth before the final day of judgement. If there is an end of the world dooms day, that's it. But before that day, Revelation 16:21 speaks of catastrophic disasters like 50 kilo hailstones. Matthew 24:29 says, "Immediately after the tribulation of those days shall the SUN be darkened, and the moon shall not give her light, and the stars shall fall from heaven, and the powers of the heavens shall be shaken:" But while the Bible speaks of judgment on earth before the ultimate "day of judgement", it also speaks of hope and describes very clearly how to escape the coming wrath. This is not about escaping any 2012 end of the world doomsday prediction... but something more fearful!
3. Then there are stories surfacing about SCIENTIFIC EXPERIMENTS along the lines of splitting the atom - will the earth be blown up by a mad scientist? Apparently there is an experiment on a very large scale planned for the year 2012. Should this be included in a list of 2012 predictions? Could this bring about an end of the world 2012 doomsday? In a long very tunnel, particle physicists plan to collide electrons and positrons (the opposite of electrons). The tunnel may be up to 50km long and they will use energies of up to a trillion electron volts. This will hurl these particles at close to the speed of light. No one knows what will happen if antimatter is created. Could it destroy a delicate balance in the universe? Will December 21 2012 end of the world predictions be fulfilled through scientific a experiment? We don't think so.
4. On an ancient MAYAN CALENDAR 2012 is an IMPORTANT DATE. The Mayan Calendar runs out on December 21 2012 and it has been suggested that they knew something we don't. This is the basis of what has been called the Mayan calendar 2012 Prophecy. This "prophecy" has been referred to by many end of the world 2012 "prophets". However, because an ancient Mayan calendar ends on December 21 2012, does this mean 2012 is the end of the world? True, on the Mayan Calendar December 21, 2012 was an important date. But did the Mayans themselves really believe in an end of the world 2012 doomsday.
STRANGE MAYAN BELIEFS. While the Mayan's had some interesting beliefs and insights about life and the cosmos and while some of them reflect scientific observations today, there are other things you may not have heard of. For example, the Mayans also believed that our sun is a god powered by blood from human sacrifices - this and other beliefs were influenced by hallucinogenic drugs which were used, among other things for auto sacrifices (yes, suicide). So be careful what you believe about Mayan calendars.

5. A very real possibility is DISEASE - we have seen how quickly it can spread and devastate human life on earth. And there has been talk of the threat of pandemics for several years now. Including the recent Swine Flu pandemic. But is it reasonable to say that the world will end this way on exactly December 21 2012 with an earth wide pandemic? No!
6. Will SOLAR FLARES bring about a December 21 2012 end of the world doomsday? Solar flares are near the top of the list for 2012 predictions. Solar flares seem to come in cycles and NASA had said that the sun was due for a big one around 2012. Some now say 2013. How big and if it will really happen or bring about an end of the world 2012 doomsday are unknown. What we do know is that our life on earth is deeply affected by the activity of the sun. And as mentioned in the section above on Armageddon, the sun WILL play a role in end time biblical judgments on the earth. However, while solar flares and other solar activity may affect us more in 2012 than other years, no one can predict that solar activity will bring about the end of the world on December 21 2012 doomsday.
7. BIOLOGICAL WARFARE has been included among some 2012 predictions as a means to earth's end. But again, how can one predict that a 2012 end of the world doomsday from this! Especially that biological weapons will end the world on exactly December 21 2012? The threat of biological warfare will always be here as long as we have insane and / or hateful world control freaks. However, biological warfare cannot be seriously considered as and end of the world 2012 doomsday prophecy, let alone the exact date of December 21 2012. This must be seen as scaremongering and not worthy of attention
8. One of the end of the world 2012 predictions is for a GIANT METEOR OR ASTEROID to destroy the earth. Meteors have struck the earth before and caused great devastation.
Could a giant asteroid collision bring about a 2012 end of the world doomsday? Some predict we are overdue for a strike and give 2012 as a possible date for a giant meteor strike on earth. The biggest threat NASA have identified is an asteroid named Apophis. However it is not coming on an end of the world December 21 2012 doomsday and is currently on a Level 0 on the Torino Scale. It will pass close in 2029 with a probability for impact on April 13, 2036 calculated at 1 in 45,000. Asteroid threats still remain. Worth thinking about is Bible prophecy about 50 kilo hail stones and stars falling the sky, but not in 2012.
9. Others believe that a mysterious red planet, PLANET X: NIBIRU, two thirds earth's size, is heading towards earth right now and will pass through our solar system around 2012 causing polar axis shifts on earth. Some say that polar shift takes thousands of years. Others say that Nibiru's presence will cause polar shift to happen quickly.

Nibiru (Planet X - the red planet) is one of the biggest December 21 end of the world 2012 predictions. Some claim that Nibiru is one of twelve planets in our solar system and that it cannot be seen at the moment because it is hidden by other planets. To find out more about Nibiru and whether it will come near or strike earth in 2012.

10. Planet X has also been linked to some VAGUE prophecies (or quatrains). Some say that for NOSTRADAMUS 2012 end of the world predictions are true. However, more than once Nostradamus predictions have been "tweaked" to fit with world catastrophes. How do we know that end of the world 2012 predictions involving Nostradamus are to be trusted. Nostradamus was a clever man but was he also a prophet?
11. GALACTIC ALIGNMENT. Galactic Alignment is when the sun is in position between the earth and the black hole in the centre of the Milky Way galaxy. Our solar system is part of that galaxy. One of the end of the world 2012 theories is that this galactic alignment in 2012 is going to bring all kinds of natural and even cosmic disasters on earth. They believe that when the sun and earth become aligned with the black hole in the centre of the Milky Way galaxy, this will bring about the end of the world in 2012 because it will somehow create an extra gravitational pull on Earth. There is also another theory associated with galactic alignment that has to do with evolutionary enlightenment. .
It might be nuts or maybe I’m the silly one but the word death also causes me to worry. Everyone said this is another thing that they worry too. Death is neither unpredictable nor preventable, unexpected and no one can say when, where and how your death will occur. I’m worried because I’m not yet ready with this; I have a lot of plans and goals in life that I did not achieve yet. I want them to be come true first before I leave this world.
Worries really occupied our mind sometimes we forget that we spend a lot time in thinking of all our worries.
A lot of techniques shown on how to overcome our worries according to:
Terri Mauro “we should make a schedule a time for worry for able to us not to spend so much time, share worries with others, and used worries as signposts of progress”
We can overcome our worries by praying and believing in the words of god. In relation with this here are some proverbs from the bible:
Philippians 4:6:7
Don’t worry about everything, instead, pray about everything. Tell god what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience Gods peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.
Matthew 6:31- 33
So don’t worry about these things, saying” What will we eat? What we will drink? What we will wear?”These thoughts dominate the thought of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs. Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need”
As I do this one I realize something, constant worrying takes a heavy toll. It keeps me up at night and makes me tense and edgy during the day. I hate feeling like nervous a nervous wreck, so why I have to keep on worrying? I must do something that I love doing than something that I don't. I'm only 16 years old, and have a whole life ahead of me to make mistakes and learn from them. Life is a learning process, I'm glad that I choose this topic because I understand a lot that open my mind broadly, otherwise I'd be staying up through early days and late nights worrying about "is this right for me?" rather than doing it and then KNOWING whether it is or isn't right for me.
Just keep on believing that when we keep our eyes focussed on god we remember his love for us and we realize we truly have nothing to worry about. God has a wonderful plan for our lives, and part of that plan includes taking care of us. Even in the difficult times, when it seems like God doesn't care, we can put our trust in the Lord and focus on his kingdom. God will take care of our every need.

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