Can a English speaker help with corrections?

Could you please help correct these sentences? How would you personally say these sentences?

1 If I hadn't met my wife, I would have pushed her to become a photographer and in turn she would have given me the idea to pursue film making.

2 If I am late the few days I do work each month, I'll get fired.

3 The house is big enough that if you wanted some alone time you could get it.

4 If you can't come by, we'll leave it for some other time.

Thank you so much