It is usually muttered under the breath as you walk away from someone who has annoyed you - or when relating a tale about an incident. You don't normally use it directly at people unless you are messing around with a friend or family member.
Now I'm curious, MrP: does this mean that the words ****** and bleeding are no longer offensive, that they can now be used freely, if informally, in mixed company without concern?
I'm curious too, MrP! The word "******" is used as often as a comma among teenagers where I am, so it surely isn't dying out as far as usage goes!
However, it is certainly true that "******" no longer counts as a swearword to be avoided at all costs. It simply serves as the "prelude to a deluge", if you know what I mean
My own unauthorized theory is that "Alf Garnett", the main character in the 60s tv series Till Death Us Do Part, pushed "bleeder" and "bleeding" into the realm of the quaintly humorous.
"******" meanwhile seems to have become much more acceptable in the last 25 years, esp. in the forms "silly ******" and "oh ******!". Again, it seems to have humorous overtones. I can't help feeling ther