I would be grateful if anyone could shed light on the usage of "between" and "among". First, I'll report two views on the matter.
1) In school I was taught that you use "between" for two elements and"among" for more than two elements. That's it. This rule seems to be upheld by Collins Cobuild English Dictionary for Advanced Learners as well:
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(Collins Cobuild English Dictionary for Advanced Learners - The whole entry is available here:
http://xoomer.virgilio.it/fb83/collb.txt)
between
In addition to the uses shown below, between is used in a few phrasal verbs, such as `come between'.
1 betweenIf something is
between two things or is in between them, it has one of the things on one side of it and the other thing on the other side.
2 betweenIf people or things travel
between two places, they travel regularly from one place to the other and back again.
3 betweenA relationship, discussion, or difference
between two people, groups, or things is one that involves them both or relates to them both.
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Number two is stressed in the three definitions I've reported. Much the same is said in the Cambridge Dictionary for Advanced Learners:
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http://dictionary.cambridge.org)
between (SPACE)
preposition, adverb
1 in or into the space which separates
two places, people or objects:The town lies halfway between Rome and Florence.
Standing between the two adults was a small child. She squeezed between the parked cars and ran out into the road. A narrow path ran in between the two houses.
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2) QUOTE ("Practical English Usage", Michael Swan, OUP=
*104 "between" and "among"*
1 the differenceWe say that somebody or something is /between/
two or more clearly separate people or things. We use /among/ when somebody or something is in a group, a crowd or a mass of people or things which we do not see separately.
Compare:
- She was standing
between Alice and Mary.
She was standing
among a crowd of children.
- Our house is
between* the woods, the river and the village. His house is hidden *among the trees.
/Between/ can be used to talk about intervals and time limits.
We need two metres
between the windows.
I'll be back at the office
between nine and eleven.
things on two sides: betweenWe use /between/ to say that there are things (or groups of things) on two sides.
a little valley
between high mountains
I saw something
between the wheels of the car.
* /divide/ and /share/ *
Before a series of singular nouns we usually /divide between/ and share between/. Before a plural noun, we can say /between/ or /among/. Compare:
He
divided* his money *between* his wife, his daughter and his sister. I *shared* the food *between/among all my friends.
*4 /difference between/ *
We use /between/, not /among/, after /difference/.
What are the main
differences between crows, rooks and jackdaws?
*5 'one of' etc
/Among/ can mean 'one of', 'some of' or 'included in'.
Among the first to arrive was the ambassador.
He has a number of criminals
among his friends.
between eachSome people feel that expressions like /between each window/ or /between each birthday/ are incorrect. They prefer /between each ... and the next/.
We need two metres *between each window (and the next)*. There seems to be less and less time *between each birthday (and the next)*.
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The same view is adopted by Thomson and Martinet.
QUOTE ("A Practical English Grammar", Thomson and Martinet, OUP)
between* and *amongbetween* normally relates a person/thing to two other people/things, *but it can be used of more when we have a definite number in mind:
"Luxembourg lies between Belgium, Germany and France".
among relates a person/thing to more than two others; normally we have no definite number in mind:
"He was happy to be among friends again."
"A village among the hills."
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and the Oxford Dictionary for Advanced Learners:
QUOTE (
http://www.oup.com/elt/oald/)
between
prep.
1 in or into the space separating
two or more points, objects, people,etc: Q comes between P and R in the English alphabet. I sat down between Jo and Diana. Switzerland lies between France, Germany, Austria and Italy. The paper had fallen down between the desk and the wall. (figurative) My job is somewhere between a secretary and a personal assistant.
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Fowler, too, criticized the superstition according to which "between" should be only used for two things:
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http://www.eng-lang.co.uk/fowler.htm)
The OED gives a warning against the superstition that between can be used only of the relationship between two things, and that if there are more among is the right preposition. "In all senses between has been, from its earliest appearance, extended to more than two ... It is still the only word available to express the relation of a thing to many other things severally and individually; among expresses a relation to them collectively and vaguely: we should not say the space lying among the three points or a treaty among the three Powers." But the superstition dies hard.
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I askef a friend of mine whether he would say "Paris is among London, Berlin and Madrid", and he answered:
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Maybe something like:
It is among them in anyone's list of expensive places to live.
Hmm. Maybe not.
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I'm already convinced that Swan, Thomson and Martinet, the OALD and Fowler are right, and that consequently Collins Dictionary and the CALD are wrong, or at least incomplete, but I still would like someone to say the ultimate word on "between" and "among", and why some dictionaries still maintain that "between" can't be used for more than two objects. Since linguists are native speakers, they probably say "Our house is between the woods, the river and the village", or "Switzerland lies between France, Germany, Austria and Italy", so why would they write something else?
Partly on another note, I asked on an Italian newsgroup about the difference between "among" and "amid", and I was told that "amid" carries a more physical meaning, and "among" a more abstract meaning. I was also supplied the following examples:
"I felt that I was among friends".
"I was standing amid my friends".
I wonder how you can understand whether "among" has an abstract meaning if you don't compare it with the same sentence with "amid". Would you use "amid" in order to make sure the reader infers that you mean "phisically among my friends". Does "amid" have any more implications? An Italian friend of mine was taught to use >.
Besides, according to what phonetical rules do you choose between "among" and "amongst", or "amid" and "amidst", or even "while" and "whilst", assuming you like to use both forms of each pair of words? I've read "amongst the" and "whilst Adam", so I presume it's common to use the form before "th" or vowels.
If you have read through this long post, remember that in Italy we say "that which doesn't kill you, fortifies you".
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