"to be blessed with the ability to do sth" - "with" is correct here , not "in" In the other situations, "in" is part of prepositional phrases and is not attached to the verb "to bless". This silly example may demonstrate the point: "He was blessed under the table". [Where was he at the time he was blessed?
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