Generally speaking, "at" is a milder word than "in" - this is probaby because to pronounce "in" requires greater effort than when pronouncing "at" - and you'd tend to use "at," for example, in the following: She is excellent at sewing, cooking, and child care. "In" would tend to be used in the following: He is excellent in boxing, shooting, and hunting.
New words, one handy idiom, and a 2-minute quiz — delivered to your inbox to keep your streak alive.
nerdikarpRefering to the post by anonymous, do we really use 'at' for womenly activities and 'in' for manly activities?It's certainly an... interesting theory. She's good at fencing. She's good at judo. She's good at butchering pigs. She good at skeet shooting. Do those sound womanly to you?
nerdikarpI have trouble with usin