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Hello everyone,I need your help. What I've been wondering for a long time is what the differences are between the following sentences.*"I am shocked" and "I got shocked"**"I am shocked at  the fact", "I am shocked about the fact" and "I am shocked by the fact"Thanks!RH

CalifJim · Accepted Answer

If you are shocked, you are already experiencing the feeling of being shocked as you speak.
If you got shocked, something happened that made you react with shock.
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The differences between by, at, and about are minimal with the expression be shocked.
To be shocked by something means that the 'something' was the means by which you became shocked. The connection between some event and your shock is very close.
I was shocked by the news that he had died. He was so young. (at also possible)
Use this for the literal shock of something electric.
I was shocked by the electric outlet. I should have turned off the electricity before beginning the job.
To be shocked at something means, probably, that you react with shock when you observe it. (I use this one most of the time.)
I am shocked at the behavior of her children. She does not discipline them nearly enough. (by not as good, in my opinion)

To be shocked about something is the weakest of the three. Whatever is shocking you is something more vague and general. (Personally, I rarely use this one.)
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Use at when in doubt, except for the case of electric shock.

CJ

Hachi-hachi · Answer

Thanks a lot for your quick reply and your advice! It was really clear and easy for me to understand.
RH

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