Argumentive Essay

0Assignment: Who has more options in the dating/mating and work worlds-women or men? Support your assertion with specific examples.02br
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00Women have more options in dating than they may realize, and the men are successful in the work place but have fewer options available to them.02br
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00Who has more options when it comes to dating, the women of course. All they have to do is sit there and look pretty. The man is one that has to make the first move, and more often, this first move is the hardest part because of the fear of rejection. The fear of rejection not only comes after actually meeting the girl, but throughout the whole relationship if it gets past the first date. After the first date, the man wonders when he should call, is it too soon to call, what do I say, while the girl probably has a number of men calling them all the time. If there is a second date, the guy wonders if it is too soon to kiss the girl without again, the fear of being rejected and coming on too strong, and if a guy really likes this girl how soon is it before he should tell her so. 02br
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00The women have so many options hen it comes to dating because they can choose from so many men whom she gave her phone number too. Where as a man probably spent the whole evening just trying to get one girl's phone number. The man probably spent a lot of his money buying women drinks all night and did not even get her phone number. She will end up leaving with a better-looking man. 02br
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00Some girls are not looking for Mr. Nice Guy but often the wrong Guy. Why are the most beautiful looking girls attracted to jerks. Men who would not treat them the way they ought to be treated. Then there is all the things a man try to do to impress a girl. Every man knows he has to pay for the date, a man who did not, would not get very far in the relationship. On the date itself, and the man would be wondering what to say to this girl, what they would have in common, trying to sound intelligent, and sincere. Women are attracted to men who are strong, independent and cocky, but what about the men who do not think of themselves as neither strong nor attractive, but as the kind, gentle, and considerate. These women would not see that, but think of the man as a wimp. 02br
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00If the man successfully makes it through a number of dates, and the girl is still interested the same guy, how soon is it to get serious in the relationship. How soon should they wait before they decide to live together? All these decisions only affect men, because the women have so many choices when it comes to relationships. Women can pick from a handful of men whom are interested in her, where as a man will take whomever will settle for him. Once the relationship takes off, the man is the one who has to support the family if it goes that far. A women has options to stay home with the kids, pursue a career or have a little of both. Once in the workforce the women scream for equal rights and want equal pay like the men, for doing the same amount of work. Women say men have higher pay even if they do same amount of work as the men. The men, of course would have to be supportive of her career choosing and help around the house. 02br
00Many marriages end in divorce, because men are not willing to be supportive of the choices women make, and the aftermath is men are still obligated to compensate the women even after marriage by paying alimony to the ex-wife and child support for the children. Some men do not want to pay alimony and may end up in prison because of it. Therefore, the women keep on taking, taking, and taking and the men are always giving, giving, and giving. Women will get everything handed to them on a plate and a man has to work hard for what he wants accomplished, to support his family and keep wife happy. The women love to have her cake and eat it too. If women wanted to be equal, then help pay the bills, pay half the tab for the date, take their share of the burden 0-