Everyday language: He is the boy (who/that) I grew up with. Formal language: He is the boy with whom I grew up. Everyday language: She is the girl (who/that) I danced with.
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Everyday language: He is the boy (who/that) I grew up with.
Formal language: He is the boy with whom I grew up.
Everyday language: She is the girl (who/that) I danced with.
Formal language: She is the girl with whom I danced.
Many native speakers probably go their whole lives without once using the word "whom".