Hi,
1. Want me to get it appraised? Or
Want me to have it appraised? Both correct w/ same meaning? Yes. 'Get' is a slightly more casual word.
2. I'd be prouder if I had helped out. Or
I'd be prouder if I helped out. What's the difference?
The former sounds like you are talking about help you could have given in the past.
The latter soun