1 and 2 both sound okay to me. RSVP is French, meaning "please respond" - it's use with an invitation to request that you let the host or hostess know whether or not you'll be attending. You shouldn't say "Please RSVP" because that means "Please please answer" but it's actually pretty common to see that.
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