' has no reasonable meaning—it is the 'having' that needs to be agreed to. Having said that, the 'my' form is becoming less used nowadays.
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AnonymousCould someone please explain the grammatical rationale behind the use of "my" instead of "me" in the following sentence: "Would he agree to my having a bouquet?" Why isn't the sentence written as "Would he agree to me having a bouquet?"Because for strict grammarians, 'Would he agree to me?' has no reasonable meaning—it is the 'having' that needs to b