Hi John I don't think you will find 'abouts' listed in a dictionary, so that rules out your second sentence. As to your first, I'd recommend using this: 1) Do you know about/approximately when you will be back? Note: The word 'whereabouts' exists, but there is no such word as 'whenabouts'.
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