Oddly enough, "blood mother" is never used, although as you say "blood relation" or "blood relative" is. And "maternal mother" is redundant. Adopted children refer to their "birth mother" or "biological mother," but I would not use those terms to distinguish mother from stepmother, unless perhaps the mother died or abandoned the family when the child was very young and the father remarried.
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