Hello, Guest "I wonder if" and "I was wondering if" are commonly used to "soften" requests. Instead of saying, for example: "Excuse me, sir. ", which is perhaps too direct and which sounds more like a demand than a request when you address a stranger of whom you're going to ask a favour, you use "I was wondering if" (even more polite that "I wonder if").
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