I am dying to know too. But I just used a way that Davkett had taught me in advanced google search. I found "a letter appeared" had 10,200 results; "a letter appearing" had 617 results.
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Nona The BritSo, OP, if you can't quite follow that, the answer is that your class mate is incorrect.