A compostion

topic:Some people think that family is the most important influence on young adults.Other people think that friends are the most important influence on young adults.Which do think is the most important influence?Give specific reasons for your answer.

Young adults are green hand in handling something,their future lives should have a good guiding.But which is most important influence their lives?There are many arguements in this question.Two of the major opinions are the features of family and friends influencing.

One of these influences is family which is warm habour for everone,it is very important influence for young adults.

the other one is friends influence.In the society lives,they will make many friends,so in their future lives, friends are also their important role.

Which one is most important ?On the one hand,the young adults who want more independent,and he or she would have a opposite attitude to his or her family.Young adults have been in parents families too long time,now their society life are just starting,it were very bad if their parents would always guide their children to settle down the things which bother their children hard.Young adults like the birds fly out of the nest,like the seeds grow up,they should face more difficulties and deal with more problems by themselves.
On the other hand,young adults touch the society first time,they must settle down somethings which are easy or hard .However,in this time their parents are usually far from them,and how do they do? They may ask for their friends .At this results,what the friends do will influence them deeply.

Furthermore,friends can motivate us to make us progress.We have a saying"depend on our friends when we are out;depend on our parents when we are home".It is true.everyone has his or her friends,we can not only feel warmth and careness but also learn experiments from different friends when we need.When we meet the trouble,we should remember the friends to help us,at the same time,we get more and more mature and sophisticated so that we can accept big thing and turn more powful.

Friends are very precious resource for us,but we must treat them carefully,we should distinguish the good and bad friends.Some bad friends like drug may hurt us lives.In conclusion,the friends influence us more,we must treat them rationally.