1 serious letter please help make corections

I had a major menial relapse with this last letter I received that you sent.


The reason Im so concerned is I have been married 3 times. My first husband John was killed in an auto accident. He when to work then after work he did his stuff while I worked then went home and stayed with the kids. After John accident I found out I needed my independence to live my own life. My children were not going stop me or get in the way. Hell I deserved it.


When I had ovarian cancer I found out no man wants a woman that can’t give him a child of his own.




Then I met Trent he was wonderful he tried to marry me. I should of because he truly loved me and I loved him Trent he was like your Larry. He would do any thing for my kids and me he was breathtaking. I told him I need my independence. I needed to go and do with my friends. Just like you I told him my feeling of my independence to go with my friends was not going to change. My close friends were also are my family.


Hey I have NO family! I spent my childhood in a children’s home.


Also just like your man He also brought up the same things I should be concerned about like: birthday parties my kids need to go to, work I said I was going to do around the house, ect.

He was willing to let me go but not really excited. One weekend I was out of town having fun with my closes friends I had a little too much to drink. Then it happened so quickly a cute man asked me to dance and I did. i always said this would never happen to me


I always told Trent when I got read to go I would never dance with another men ever except him.


Next I thing I knew I was kissing this strange man. After you start kissing it is too hard to stop when you’re drinking


Weeks later a picture shows up with me and this man all Trent did is drop his head he never sais anything

He stayed around for a while but it was not the same and one day he packed up and was gone. I was hurt


Then I met Bobby he was someone that would give me my all the independence I needed so I married him.

Boy did he give me my independence he engorged me to go. Every time I went out of town or just shopping with my friends he was gone also telling me he was playing golf or playing softball. He was off with some young bimbo. I divorced him.


Then I met Wayne it felt right and I married him. He never would evolve him self with my kids. He said that they were not his. He always worked or went to the casinos by him self or with his friends. Hardly gave me anytime alone. I guess I found out how Trent felt. I divorced him


Now those friends that I have: have grandbabies and have no time to talk

Or go places anymore with me. I have no one to talk to.


My 3 children are living their lives. They now have nothing to do with me now my youngest told me that I didn’t have time for her when she was a kid and now she does not have time for me. As far as she was concerned Mr. & Mrs. Younge were our parents. They were the couple I let keep them when I went away for a week or weekend.


You need to think hard about your feelings and future

I wish I had Trent beside me and my children now.



Honey when you find a good man you need to keep him.


He will be there for you when everyone else has gone.



Danna